Which one is better Trojan vs Durex vs lifestyle? need help is my first time.?

The only guarantee is not doing it. You take your chances otherwise, and you will live with the consequences of your choices.

Perhaps you could dare to be different and actually learn how to ''love'' and ''respect'' a girl, for who she is, and not what she can give you, or what you can give her physically. Remove the physical from the equation, and learn to respect and really love another human being for who they are, which is what relationships are about.

If you don't want to marry the girl then it's all for nothing and is meaningless, and it will take it's toll on you. If you do want to marry this girl and the feeling is mutual, then have the courage and the decency to prove it by waiting. Otherwise you'll be just like any other child who can't keep it in his pants. Somebody's got to be the first to step away from the nonsense that our amoral society is shoveling into every kids heads today. It could be you. Be a man and do the right thing.

Do you recognize the phrase, ''do the right thing?''

Usually spoken to someone who has already made a child and is debating whether or not to be responsible in accepting fatherly duties after the fact....be responsible before the fact and you won't regret it, and just see how many women you will actually get to ''know'' if you stop thinking below the belt.

Then you can keep your eyes open for the right one, and when she does come along, you won't be with that girl who was just a fling...and miss out on a life with the girl that was meant for you. She's out there, don't make the mistake now...because your life can be forever altered by one poor choice now.